Tuesday, December 30, 2008
This person had everything. Love, intelligence, goals. A wonderful husband, a beautiful boy, and another son on the way. Though she did not see it then. her life was pretty much perfect, in almost every single way.
She had family, a roof over head. All the bills were paid, a great life she led.
Though she did not see it then, until it was too late. Then she ran away again. Like she had done many times in the past. Only now she was older, wiser, she had brains on her side.
Instead of disapeering, physically & actually running further away, she stayed this time. And just ran away from her mind.
No one knows she is even missing. They all believe she is me. No one knows I am holding her place right now. At least until she can be.
Until she can come back again, and lead a normal life. Until she can manage on her own again. Until she is no longer a threat to herself.
Until then I will be here, saving her place.
Until she is ready again to live her life once more.
Thursday, December 25, 2008
You were the light in all your grand children's eyes, even when we got into trouble.
We will miss you forever.
And you are always here, in our hearts.
With Love, Nicole
Wednesday, December 24, 2008
I have been asking for a bracelet, with my kids birthstones since last Christmas. A week or two ago Tom told me he didn't get me it, again, but wanted to get me something "nicer" than I described. All I wanted was plastic beads in the right colors for my kids stones, on a plastic/wire bracelet thingy from an arts an crafts store, I just wanted him to throw one together..
This is why, I am terrible w/ jewelery and break everything, or never wear it because of lack of dressy occasion..
I bitched, I moaned, told him I was going to hate whatever bracelet he got me, told him I was going to throw it back in his face.. I was a rotton bitch. I deserved to have been bitch slapped right then and there.
He explained how much this bracelet meant, cost, and how important it was that he did this his way. He explained how I wasn't going to hate it, how I wasn't going to throw it into his face, how infact I was going to love it.
This is my new bracelet, that I cried while reading, and am still tearing up over:
Each of the 5 ovals say:
Nicole A. Montgomery
Jan. 23, 1987
Thomas H. Montgomery, Sr
June 6, 1979
Thomas H Montgomery, Jr
Sept. 6, 2005
Collin P. Montgomery
Jan. 17, 2008
Oct. 3, 2006
Forever In Our Hearts
When I saw the baby we miscarried included on my "family" bracelet.. that was it, black eyeliner was all over my face, lets just say it is a very good thing my battery died on my camera right after I first first first saw my beautiful gift.
I will be forever greatful for this, I probably will not take it off until it is lost or broken..
(I mentioned I am terrible w/ jewelery..)
Sunday, December 21, 2008
I just read some awesomely wonderful amazing news. I will finally get to meet one of my bestest friends in the whole damn world. I think I deserve a fucking moment of fucking happiness?
Or does everyone on the god damn planet want me to be miserable every fucking moment of every fucking day?
Man.. I love my parents to death, they are doing so much for me and my family, but do they need to make me feel even more disgusted with myself than I already am?
Do they need to remind me every fucking day that with out them, I wouldn't fucking exist and my children wouldn't have a fucking roof over their heads?
Do they need to remind me every fucking day that with out them, I would be completely fucked?
Do they need to rub in all they have to do is tell me to get out and I will be fucked?!
Does she need to tell me EVERYFUCKING HOUR OF EVERYFUCKING DAY that I need to save up and get an apartment?
It was tough doing a craft project while living with my parents since they don't believe in any noise during the afternoon, since they snooze all day on the weekends on the couch/chair. Tom was shushing Thomas every three and a half seconds, not letting me put in any input. Thomas and I weren't able to help build it at all... Even most of the decorating he did.. It is so hard when Daddy/Tom is such a "perfectionist" when it comes to these kinds of things, which puts a damper on Thomas's creativity.. Basically Thomas and I put the candy/icing where we were told, and whispered the whole time. With all my bitching and moaning, we had fun. I love when the four of us our together, doing something, anything together..
Wednesday, December 17, 2008
April 24th 2007 period shows.
May 6th 2007 find out we are expecting.
June ?th 2007 day of spotting after sex.
January 17th 2008 Collin Paul is born
January 17th-February 1st 2008 post pardum bleeding.
June 30th 2008 1st post pardum period.
July, August, September, October & November 2008, no period
July & August sex 3 times.
September 4th 2008 home pregnancy test negative.
September & October 2008 no sex.
November 5th & 13th, sex, pulls out.
December 15th 2008 period shows up.
I am woman again!
Tuesday, December 16, 2008
Have a nightmare? Just can't sleep?
Head on downstairs,
That's where she'll be.
"Coffee" in the morning,
cereal in the TMNT bowl.
Gotta eat it with the trix spoon,
It's the same everytime, ya know.
David the Gnome,
We were never alone.
why Santa made two stops.
One "Christmas" at our house.
But the one at her's always rocked!
Aunt Jemima pancakes,
and the syrup too.
Always a perfect lunch,
and a perfect dinner too.
Playing out back,
in the turtle sandbox.
throwing some rocks.
Years went by,
we all aged.
Growing older and older.
She went so grey!
Her hair always the same,
the perm tight to her head.
She always dyed it brown.
But once it was brownish-red.
Her nose was like rudolph.
so red and so bright.
Her toes were crooked and mangled,
man, what a sight!
Solitaire, Uno, and Skipbo
were a few games we played.
While I snacked on her stuffed cherry peppers,
which she always had made.
While we played,
soaps we watched.
But you had to pay attention to her cheating,
in which I would always yell, stop.
And when we left her house,
it was always a blast.
1st stop, always was Dunkin'
I thought those days would last.
Whenever out to eat,
she would never let us pay.
It was like her way of thanking us,
for sharing our entire day.
Those days are gone,
Man I just want
one last forehead kiss.
One more teeth-hanging out smile.
One more silly grin.
One more chance to say,
Haha I win.
Just one more day,
just her and I.
Just one more day, PLEASE
I swear I won't cry.
Saturday, December 13, 2008
Wednesday, December 10, 2008
How freaking sweet is that? After begging for a half hour, we let him go out and play in the snow, at 9:30-10 o'clock in the morning!
Of course, since I have been picture posting crazy as of late, I have some shots to show off :D
Making a snowball
Getting ready to throw a snowball
After Thomas threw his snowball
Thomas and his Daddy building a snowman
Our Frosty, who is already melted completely away :[
I cannot wait for next year when the snow falls and Collin will be big enough to go play with Thomas in the snow.
This here is my Aunt Julie, who puts all of it together each and every year:
This is my newest cousin on this side of my family, Nicholas, he is my wonderful cousin's Wendy's youngest son:
And with his mama, Wendy:
My Thomas nervous, he doesn't like large crowds:
My Daddy, getting dressed as Santa:
Thomas, with his Poppy, er.. I mean with Santa:
Collin's 1st time sitting on Santa's lap:
The big guy and me:
My parents, brother, husband and two boys:
My beautiful, wonderful, amazing family:
The Lalla Elders, and their spouses.
From left to right:
Uncle Jack, Aunt Julie, Uncle Henry, Aunt Ann, Aunt Marianne, Aunt Carol, My Daddy Paul, and My Mommy Grace:
And lastly, my tired little Collin, after meeting Santa:
Sunday, December 7, 2008
Here are a bunch of photographs of our afternoon at the Museum:
(Sorry there are so many)
Again, so sorry there are alot of shots, I cannot believe I took well over 200.. I need to chill with my camera!
And off to see another Santa today, at the annual Lalla Gala